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Readers weren’t fooling in April when they named Ariana Sieber as the month’s “Is She Hot?” contest winner.

Despite her shy nature and unavailability – sorry guys, she’s a wife and mother – readers fell in love with her Barbie Doll figure and beautiful face. A student majoring in business, Ariana admitted she’s a bit of a “nerd” when it comes to hitting the books.

At age 29, she is learning to appreciate chivalry more.

“At some point, I developed a disdain for the implication that we as women are incapable of doing these things for ourselves. I paid all of my own bills, made all of my own decisions and somehow grappled with the ability to open up a door now and again. As I get older, I see more of the sweetness in these deeds. Particularly from loved ones, they are endearing, meant only to remind us that we are appreciated for being gentle creatures.”

Yes, and we also get to look at your ass when we hold the door for you. Savvy, at long last, presents this housewife who is anything but desperate…

Savvy: Pretending for a moment you weren’t married, what would be the best way for a guy to start a conversation and get your phone number to get a date?

Ariana: Step 1: Do not start talking while still staring at a woman’s breasts with a big goofy grin on your face.

Savvy: (Raising head) Oops sorry about that.

Ariana: It’s fine that a woman makes you feel that way, but save those expressions for moments of passion. Step 2: Be self-confident but non-threatening, but do express an interest she’ll chalk it up to friendly conversation. These rules do not apply to all women, every woman is different, so don’t be too hard on yourself if this doesn’t work for you.

Savvy: What if guys try it that way and a girl still leaves us feeling burned?

Ariana: Brush it off like you don’t care one way or the other and go ahead and try to still have a good time. Just because she chooses to be rude doesn’t mean you should make yourself look bad too. In fact, I know that it is very intriguing to women when a man is able to be cool enough to just say ok, and not let it affect his night. You may even get a visit from her friend who witnessed how you were treated and wants to help you feel better.

Savvy: A female friend, I hope. Supposing you were still single again, would you marry Tom Cruise if he said you would have to become a scientologist?

Ariana: Of course, there needs to be an attraction, but I’ve always felt more comfortable around someone who is a free-thinker. I can appreciate a person’s faith in their religion, but inevitably they will feel compelled to convert me, and it is just not going to happen. Intelligence is important as well as the ability to listen -- all women like that!

Savvy: What kind of guys are you attracted to?

Ariana: A little rough around the edges, but sensitive and caring. Empathy is a must! But not too whiney, nobody wants to hear that. I like strong arms, and chest, it feels comforting and secure.

Savvy: Given your marital status, I guess you believe in that happily ever after with one person thing.

Ariana: I think some people have a special attraction to each other that is biophysical. Long-term relationships need constant maintenance and tolerance. People can be happily ever after with one person -- if they are understanding and patient, but when two people become miserable they should not stay together.

Savvy: Do you ever pretend to be interested in something that bores you just because hubby likes it?

Ariana: Sometimes I tolerate things I’m less than interested. That’s just the give and take any relationship has to have. I like a lot of different music so more often than not, I end up liking some of his music. But, if I don’t like it, I usually deal with it unless asked, then I’ll just tell the truth, but politely. I have never really just “fit in” with any group of people. I like to be individual. I can’t think of any one person who is liked by everyone. I just recognize those who appreciate me as a person, and I don’t waste a lot of time on the rest.

Savvy: Do you find that you relate better to men than to women, or vice versa?

Ariana: More often than not, I have a hard time relating to both. Men often have expectations which make me wary, and I don’t meet very many women who I have anything in common with. Especially in the town I live in, which is loaded with very conservative minded people who have lived here their whole lives and whatever is the general consensus is what they believe. However, I am starting to meet more like-minded people and it’s great!

Savvy: Sounds like the place where you live sucks.

Ariana: There are beautiful streams and forests, caves and lakes. In addition, there are cities and towns with old style charm and open minds within driving distance. There’s so much to do if you like to go out, it’s just that it is a long drive to any of those places from where I am.

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Savvy: I hear ya. How would you describe "a good time"?

Ariana: No worries, no responsibilities, no expectations, and no pre-conceived notions -- just being able to do what I want when I want to.

Savvy: Do you ever regret getting married and starting a family or was this your lifelong dream?

Ariana: I never in my life had any intentions of getting married or having children. In fact, as a little girl, while all of the other little girls played with their dolls and played dress up, I was always doing something weird like walking my parakeets around the block or launching myself down the hill on top of a skateboard. I think people need to do whatever makes them happy, and to hell with what anyone else has to say about it.

Savvy: Would you flip out if your husband ever kept porn stashed or went out to a strip club?

Ariana: I shouldn’t, but I would. I do my best to keep his interest so that hopefully he won’t have to.

Savvy: Who would need that stuff when he has you at home waiting for him?

Ariana: I do my best!

Savvy: Do you think a woman can be happy if she marries a man she doesn’t love but she loves his money?

Ariana: It is better to be happy! Do what makes you happy. While there may be some very nice wealthy men out there (none of which I’ve ever encountered), I could not tolerate a relationship that was not based on love. Wealth tends to make an ass out of men (I’m sure it does women too) and while I can deal with a lot of things, this is precisely the type of person I have always been turned-off by. The rich men I’ve met expect that everyone loves them and wants to be around them, but the concept of people actually liking them (and not their stuff) eludes them. They are content to act however they feel whenever they want just like a spoiled child and their “friends” are expendable. Don’t get me wrong, I would love to have the money to buy whatever I wanted, but I am not willing to give up who I am to have it. I would rather find a way to earn the money myself. I would never have a child with a man I didn’t love. A child binds you for life to another person. I would consider adoption before a marriage without love.

Savvy: Are you open-minded sexually?

Ariana: I’d say I am, but there are some things I won’t do.

Savvy: How can guys always satisfy a woman? Any suggestions?

Ariana: For me, it always helps to be relaxed. Rub her shoulders, and kiss her neck, then go slowly towards the front. The key is to go slow, make sure she is ready for you to make that move. Don’t linger in any one area too long or be too rough. Just be gentle. The rest you’ll have to figure out for yourself.

Savvy: What makes someone great in bed?

Ariana: Compassion and passion.

Savvy: What is the number one thing that men could do better in bed?

Ariana: Don’t try to recreate the porno you saw last week with your woman, just concentrate on her and being together, enjoy the moment.

Savvy: Does size matter?

Ariana: Maybe this is just me, but length does not matter. I think guys are more obsessed with this than women. Ok, there are extremes one way or the other that might not be too cool, but as far as size goes, girth is more important than length.

Savvy: Do you prefer to be on top or bottom?

Ariana: It depends on my mood.

Savvy: You did some sexy shots with another model during your shoot. Have you ever fantasized about being with another woman?

Ariana: I can appreciate other womens’ beauty, and even sexuality, but I’ve never been sexually attracted to another woman. I have had friends that I felt a very strong emotional bond to.

Savvy: So that is a yes or a no?

Ariana: I don’t have a problem with homosexuality. It’s just not me.

Savvy: If your husband asks you to do something kinky, do you do it?

Ariana: We’ve tried things. I do it to please him and see if I like it. If I don’t like it, I won’t try it again.

Savvy: When you had sex for the first time, how was it?

Ariana: Disappointing.

Savvy: Some guy’s ego just got crushed. Which is better: daytime or nighttime sex?

Ariana: I like it at night, but day can be good too.

Savvy: When you were single, how long did you make him wait before you slept with a guy?

Ariana: It depended on how I felt about the person.

Savvy: Have you ever had sex in public?

Ariana: Yes. While out for a hike on a trail at a National Park my boyfriend, who is now my husband, and I decided to go very slightly off the beaten path and preceded to get freaky. It was a little tricky because we could see people as they went by, but as far as we knew no one noticed us.

Savvy: Do you like to role-play?

Ariana: I’ve actually never tried it. I’ll save that for when I’m running out of ideas.

Savvy: Have you ever had a threesome?

Ariana: No.

Savvy: How would you react if your boyfriend/husband told you he was bisexual?

Ariana: I’m not really sure… Maybe I’d have him invite his friend along.

Savvy: Interesting. Changing subjects, what do you hope might come from appearing in Savvy.com?

Ariana: I initially had hoped for the exposure I could generate from the site, but now I just hope I have given the members a wonderful pictorial!

Savvy: Tell me about your photo shoot.

Ariana: It was a lot of fun, and I made new friends -- not to mention the stay at the mansion or the day on the yacht. I will admit I wish I’d stayed a little more sober.

Savvy: Party!

Ariana: (Laughs)

Savvy: I read where you are studying business. Are you going to be one of those sharks like the contestants on “The Apprentice”?

Ariana: I’ve always known that I’m not cutthroat enough to make loads of money running a big business. I just hope for a job that I love and I dream of making enough to take many trips and see the world. I also hope to be an inspiration to my son throughout his life. In five years, I would love to have my bachelors’ degree and just be healthy and happy.

Savvy: Not cutthroat, eh?

Ariana: I’m quite the opposite, helping every else and letting myself fall behind. I have been told often that I need to be more aggressive!

Savvy: Do you like for your husband to be the aggressive one in bed?

Ariana: Depends on my mood.

Savvy: Beautiful women can get anything you want out of men.

Ariana: I’ve never had to flirt like that. I used to be quite naïve on the subject until I found out my boss -- who also happened to be my good friend -- was getting busy with the owner at work -- in his office! The owner’s wife found out and my boss was quickly fired. I had questioned her several times before about their relationship and she always emphatically denied any involvement. I still try to judge people based on who they are, and I try not to make judgments about them based on their looks.

Savvy: Has being a woman restricted your choices in life?

Ariana: I’ve been more cautious with choices regarding my safety. After I had my baby, I spent at least 2 years of my life doing nothing but caring for and protecting him, I don’t believe many men would be willing to make as many sacrifices as a new mother does.

Savvy: Would you prefer to be a dude?

Ariana: No way!

Savvy: What qualities seem to be distinctly female or distinctly male?

Ariana: Males are definitely more physical, while females are more feeling oriented.

Savvy: What qualities seem to unite the sexes? Divide us?

Ariana: The need for each other unites us, while the desire to understand each other divides us.

Savvy: What has been the biggest surprise in your life?

Ariana: So many, I don’t know… I guess the biggest surprise was when I found out that I was pregnant. Or maybe the biggest surprise was how much work a baby is.

Savvy: The biggest disappointment?

Ariana: The biggest disappointment has been in the bureaucracy involved in getting anything accomplished. Nothing ever gets taken care of in this country unless a lobbyist is paying off the congressmen and senators to get it, meaning the issues that affect those of us who are fighting to survive are not being heard and definitely not being addressed.

Savvy: Maybe your Congressman is reading this. (Laughs) If you could spend one day anywhere you wanted with anyone you wanted, doing whatever you wanted to do, what would it be like?

Ariana: At a beach somewhere on an island with my husband, the rest I will not tell.

Savvy: What a lucky guy!